The Quiet Power of Showing Up
- Rabbi Gamliel Respes
- Jul 15
- 4 min read
“real transformation happens through repetition, and not necessarily through revolution”

Parashat Pinchas is filled with dramatic moments and detailed structures. At first glance, it seems to swing from zealotry to census-taking to offerings—but beneath the surface lies a central thread that speaks powerfully to the values of consistency and continuity.
The parashah opens with HaShem rewarding Pinchas for his zealous act at the end of the previous parashah, where he stopped a public desecration of HaShem’s name. While the act itself was a moment of intense, even violent, passion, the reward is surprising: "I give him My covenant of peace" (Bamidbar 25:12). Instead of further inciting fiery behavior, Pinchas is granted peace, stability, and continuity—a priestly role that is, by definition, about maintaining order, ritual, and calm.
On the surface, the story of Pinchas might seem to highlight boldness and passionate zeal. But when we examine the full arc of the parashah, we discover that its deeper message centers not only on passionate beginnings, but on consistency and continuity as the real keys to sustaining spiritual life and communal leadership. This transition—from a one-time act of fervor to a lasting role of spiritual consistency—teaches us something profound: While moments of passion can catalyze change, it is continuity that sustains holiness. HaShem does not reward Pinchas by allowing him to keep acting as a zealot. He rewards him with the opportunity to help build a legacy of steady service.
Pinchas’s act was momentary, but the reward he received — the covenant of peace and an eternal priesthood — was designed for long-term continuity. The Torah shifts focus from the fiery moment to what comes after: stability, peace, and enduring service. This teaches us a profound lesson. Passion can ignite a cause, but it is consistency that allows it to endure. Spiritual growth, personal development, and leadership are not built on a single dramatic act, but on the daily, often quiet, commitment to one’s values and responsibilities.
The parashah continues with a detailed census of the Israelites (Bamidbar 26), preparing them for entry into the Land of Israel. This count is more than a head tally, it is a snapshot of continuity. A new generation has arisen after forty years in the wilderness, and each tribe is carefully accounted for by name, lineage, and inheritance. Despite the upheavals of the desert years, the structure of the people endures. We see the importance of consistency over time—of keeping track, maintaining tradition, and ensuring that no tribe, no person, and no responsibility is forgotten.
This lesson is deepened by the story of the daughters of Tzelofchad, who approach Moshe with a plea for inheritance (Bamidbar 27). Their request is not an act of rebellion but a desire to remain part of the continuous chain of Israelite identity and responsibility. Their courage ensures that their father’s name does not disappear from among his people. Again, we see that passion, when grounded in principle, can lead to structures that preserve identity over time.
Later in the parashah, HaShem tells Moshe that his time is coming to an end, and he must appoint a successor. Moshe asks HaShem to appoint a leader who will care for the people “like a shepherd for his flock,” and HaShem instructs him to lay his hands upon Yehoshua, a leader chosen not for dramatic displays, but for his consistent faithfulness. Yehoshua was Moshe’s shadow, always present, always learning, always loyal. He was chosen because of his long-term commitment, a quiet continuity that made him trustworthy and steady in guiding the people into the next chapter of their journey.
Toward the end of the parashah, we find a long section detailing the Tamid offerings—the daily sacrifices in the Mishkan and, later, the Temple (Numbers 28–29). This is not a coincidence. These offerings, brought morning and afternoon without fail, represent constancy, a steady rhythm of devotion that anchors the spiritual life of the nation. They are not dramatic. They don’t come with thunder or miracles. They are mundane, repetitive, and precisely because of that, they cultivate discipline, structure, and continuity. They represent the spiritual heartbeat of the people. The Tamid reflects the idea that what sustains our connection to HaShem is not one-time heroics, but regular, faithful action.
We live in a world that prizes the spectacular. Viral moments and big breakthroughs get celebrated. But Parashat Pinchas reminds us that sustainable change, spiritual growth, and healthy communities are built not on flash, but on faithfulness. Whether it’s showing up for prayer, speaking kindly, learning a bit each day, or practicing gratitude — these are the Tamid offerings of our lives. The real transformation happens through repetition, and not necessarily through revolution.
Parashat Pinchas weaves a picture of Jewish life that is sustained not just by intense moments but by structure and continuity: Zeal, like Pinchas’s, must transition into leadership and peaceful responsibility. Inheritance, like that of the tribes and daughters of Tzelofchad, requires foresight and fairness. Daily offerings, steady and reliable, build an unshakable spiritual foundation. In our own lives, it’s tempting to rely on bursts of inspiration or occasional enthusiasm. But true growth—spiritual, emotional, or communal—comes from consistency. Parashat Pinchas shows us that while passion may open the door, consistency is what allows us to walk through it and remain inside. Whether through daily prayer, weekly Shabbat observance, or regular acts of kindness, we emulate the divine when we create stable rhythms that nurture our souls and communities.
Let us ask ourselves:
What are the small, sacred routines in my life that I can honor with greater mindfulness?
How can I bring a sense of kedushah — holiness — into the ordinary rhythms of my day?
Because in the end, it’s not just about starting well, but continuing with intention, day after day.
May we be blessed to combine the passion of Pinchas with the steadiness of the Tamid, building lives of meaningful continuity.
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